Textage beginnings

Background - The man I messaged on Gaydar came back with a quick response. His torso is very promising even though he is 39. I have yet to see his face but yesterday evening I told myself to give him a try and let go of my superficial method, this once. The texts started at midnight and so far we have the following. Oh yes, and The Man has a certain circumcision fetish. Boo Hoo I said, mine is all there.

The Man - OK, so what do you want to know?

Me - Anything worth knowing I guess. How would I be able to please you without a foreskin to play with? Would I have to make it moist and workable? And does my foreskin bother you? I'm sure I could teach you to work with it. What do you think?

The Man - Interesting questions. Have you never had a cut one before? Are you proud of your foreskin? By the way, it can be workable dry too.

Me - Proud is a strong word :) think it gives me a little extra that's all. I have had a cut one before but spent far too long wondering what to do with it ;) something tells me a man this obsessed with his dick would be great between the sheets. And open minded enough to have me asking for more. Tell me, are you?

The Man - I am a catastrophe between the sheets but then again it takes two. There's not really that much too it for you to get confused by - 5.5" of de-foreskinned dick, I', sure you'd not get too lost. Of course part of what makes it different is that I'm always aware of it whereas you, I'm guessing, are not?

Me - Aware of my dick? Yes. For example at the moment it is straining in my trousers ;). A catastrophe? Elaborate please? And what would you like to do with your dick once we've made it past dinner? What would turn you on the most? Also, what do you do in terms of a career?

The Man - Blimey! Now it's talk of dinner, a raging hard on and careers... I can't keep up. Am out of work at present, trying to find something as have just done a course. Am a catastrophe in as much as most sex bores me and unless there is a certain frisson, chemistry, whatever, I switch off. Oh, the dick's just about forgotten why it's there... Your foreskin stay forward when hard?

Me - Ha. No it doesn't stay forward. It's pulled back firmly. That should please you. I'm inexperienced myself but have the mind and imagination of a whore. Re boring sex, I'm the same way inclined. If it doesn't make my toes curl, it might as well not have happened. OK, so what course? Anything exciting?

The Man - Am now qualified to teach (subject name). What do you do? Are you a permanent retractor? Sex has to flow, that's the bit I lost somewhere along the way. What is it you find intriguing, is it just about tossing off a cut guy or is there more to it?

Me - What makes you think I'm a retractor? I have just finished ...... and am training to be a ...... Alongside this I enjoy painting and writing and am doing a Masters in ...... . The idiosyncrasies of your dick mean nothing. I like that you have a fetish and a desire to explore unusual sex. I think I could learn something from you. My own fetishes include kissing and..nice fingers. At least, if a man can use his tongue and fingers well, he is half there. so, do you think you might like to meet?

The Man - Nice to come across someone who exercises their brain a bit. Why a retractor? Because you seemed more in touch than most, are you?

Me - In touch with what? My sexuality? I am aware of it but still need the experiences to enable my CV to glow. The sort of sex I like has thought behind it I guess. Once you start your job, can we fuck in the stock room? Crickey, that would be horny.

The Man - So, are you a retractor?

Me - No I wouldn't say so.

The Man - Good.

Me - And are you free to meet sometime soon where we might try and establish a click?

The Man - I think meeting is a good idea.

Mental note - Must think about this 'retractor' definition.